ok, heres the thing, i want to start contributing to my 401 k plan. Im 26 years old. I cant contribute yet as i need the money right now and i am awaiting a raise in a few months. The sad part is, i live on long island, a very expensive area, apartments alone here are ridiculous in price so that why i need the money. My question is, how do all these women live when they get older if they didnt work or rely on their husbands/partners to contribute to retirement? And also, is it ok to wait a year or two before contributing since i need the money?